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Green Flag or Red Flag?
Analyse if they're genuine or toxic β’ No judgement
Relationship Pattern Analysis Tool
Free relationship reality check tool to identify red flags and green flags in your relationship. Analyze communication patterns from WhatsApp, Instagram, iMessage, and other chat platforms. Get clarity on dating situations, long-term relationships, and post-breakup insights.
Features
Quick Pattern Check - Answer 10 questions in 30 seconds
Chat Analysis - Paste messages for deeper pattern detection
Red Flag Detection - Identify toxic communication patterns
Green Flag Identification - Recognize healthy relationship signals
Privacy-First - Your chats are not stored
Find out if they're green flag or red flag.
Answer quick questions or paste your chat. We'll analyze patterns you might miss.
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Example chat (not your data)
Flagged pattern
Guilt-tripping + hot/cold (often toxic)
This check highlights patterns like this in your own chat.
How We Do It
Pattern Database
We analyze your responses against thousands of relationship patterns from real situations
Behavioral Analysis
We identify specific communication patterns like guilt-tripping, hot/cold behavior, and mixed signals
Exact Location
We show you exactly where in your chat these patterns appear, so you can see it clearly
Actionable Guidance
We explain what each pattern means and what you can do about it, based on relationship psychology
When to Use This
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Dating & New Relationships
Understand if they're genuinely interested or just stringing you along
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Long-Term Relationships
See how communication patterns have changed and what it means
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Post-Breakup Clarity
Get objective insights into what went wrong and why
Learn About Relationship Patterns
Read our guides on recognizing toxic traits and communication patterns in relationships.