"Spotted red flags I didn't see coming" - 22, Bangalore
Green Flag or Red Flag?
Analyse if they're genuine or toxic β’ No judgement
Relationship Pattern Analysis Tool
Free relationship reality check tool to identify red flags and green flags in your relationship. Analyze communication patterns from WhatsApp, Instagram, iMessage, and other chat platforms. Get clarity on dating situations, long-term relationships, and post-breakup insights.
Features
Quick Pattern Check - Answer 10 questions in 30 seconds
Chat Analysis - Paste messages for deeper pattern detection
Red Flag Detection - Identify toxic communication patterns
Green Flag Identification - Recognize healthy relationship signals
Privacy-First - Your chats are not stored
Find out if they're green flag or red flag.
Answer quick questions or paste your chat. We'll analyze patterns you might miss.
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Instagram
iMessage
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Example chat (not your data)
Flagged pattern
Guilt-tripping + hot/cold (often toxic)
This check highlights patterns like this in your own chat.
How We Do It
Pattern Database
We analyze your responses against thousands of relationship patterns from real situations
Behavioral Analysis
We identify specific communication patterns like guilt-tripping, hot/cold behavior, and mixed signals
Exact Location
We show you exactly where in your chat these patterns appear, so you can see it clearly
Actionable Guidance
We explain what each pattern means and what you can do about it, based on relationship psychology
When to Use This
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Dating & New Relationships
Understand if they're genuinely interested or just stringing you along
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Long-Term Relationships
See how communication patterns have changed and what it means
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Post-Breakup Clarity
Get objective insights into what went wrong and why
Most people wish they checked earlier.
"I was confused. Turns out he WAS serious β I'm glad I checked."
21, Mumbai
"I didn't realize I was being guilt-tripped until I saw it clearly."
24, Delhi
"It felt calm and respectful β not dramatic."
22, Bangalore
What's Your Situation?
This helps us personalize your analysis
Choose Your Analysis
Pick what feels easier for you
How to Export Your Chat
WhatsApp
Open the chat
Tap the contact name at top
Scroll down β "Export chat"
Choose "Without media"
Copy the text and paste here
Instagram
Open the chat
Tap the contact name
Tap "i" icon β "Request download"
Or manually select and copy messages
Paste here
iMessage
Open Messages app
Long-press a message
Tap "More" β Select multiple
Copy selected messages
Paste here
Tip: Include at least 20+ messages for better accuracy. We don't store your chat.
Your Analysis
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Quick Pattern Check
10 quick taps. No right or wrong.
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Paste Your Recent Messages
Copy from WhatsApp, Instagram, or any chat
How to copy messages
WhatsApp
Open the chat β long-press a message β Select more β Copy β paste here.
Instagram
Open the chat β Select text β Copy β paste here.
Tip: include ~20+ messages for better clarity.
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Preview (on-device)
Weβll only use this for pattern checks β not storing anything.